I have been wanting to say something since last week. And that is I feel that Ann Kay and Huisi have become like my family members from friends!!!
I got the feeling as a family member of them after a few events. Firstly, its with regards to Qian Qian's 21st birthday present. Inititally I bought the gifts and kept them in my house. But for whatever reasons, I just can't seem to find them on the day of the birthday celebration. I panicked and my mood just gone bad as time was pressing against us, having to think of solutions and to get things done.
I called ann kay and told her about it. Sure enough, being a good friend, she comforted me and we thought of alternatives. We solved the problem, but wanting to add a birthday card. Okay, we set to meet bugis. However, she kept me waiting at the station when during the waiting time, I could have went up to buy the birthday card already; saving some time and set off to the celebration.
I was totally in a bad mood even though we managed to get things done. We didn't speak much in the train until I realised ann kay was standing beside me silently, not raising any doubts on my anger for sometime.
The next moment, I appologised. And I confessed to her that I am very grateful for her unstanding all these while and thanks her for staying beside me even when I nearly flared up.
This is not everyone will do! I must say.
Since then, I guess our friendship has improved furhter, to family memeber status! I feel the bonding was even stronger after last monday, when my last paper ended. Ann Kay and Huisi last minute pang seh me on that day. I went into bad mood again. That was because that was my last paper and of course the urge to go out was the strongest! But I was being pang seh. I was angry with the both of them. They knew it. So they appologised to me. I didn't bother to reply them as usually when I am angry with someone, I don't feel like talking to them, explaining to them or knowing anything related them.
I didn't sms them for a day I think. Then somehow we went out on Wednesday to bugis again. Haha. And none of us remember what had happened and we just chat as usual when we met. Its only after a while that I realised that I was still angry with her only after we have met.
This is the kind of situation that only happens in my family at least. So from this incident, I have affirmed that we are now like sisters, as close as real sisters...
So everything its just like 'There is no overnight grudge between family members'. :)
And I would like to take this chance to say that, I really don't mind when I said I am waiting patiently and don't mind waiting for you ann kay!!! Muacks!!!
